March 6, 2009

Patience, Faith, and Echo-what??????

I wanted to wait until after today to put this bit of information up. Because today we met with the perinatologist. He comes to Pocatello once a month and meets with pregnant women who have been deemed as "high risk". Some may know and some may not that after our ultra sound on Tuesday the technician informed our doctor that our baby's bowel was a little too large. This is typically called an echogenic bowel. My OB than told us some things that this could mean, it could mean either A. Its just a large bowel that will self correct itself and nothing will ever come of it, B. Our baby could have cystic fibrosis, or C. our baby could have a chromosomal defect.

Of course my immediate reaction was to break down and cry. My OB continually tried telling me to be positive and think that nothing would really be wrong. But really after you give a woman that kind of news what do you expect? So he told us a couple of things we could do, we could meet with the high risk specialist or do a panel of screens for genetic defects. We told him we would definitely meet with the specialist and than let him know on the testing. We went in today and met with the specialist, he did another ultrasound and showed us the problem with the bowel. He let us know due to the fact that our baby is growing normally otherwise down syndrome was very unlikely, I think the number he said was a 1 in 8,000 chance of it (echogenic bowel is often a sign of down syndrome). But he once again said that cystic fibrosis could take play in it and we could take the blood tests to see if we were carriers. After telling him either way we are having a baby, no matter what, he said the best thing for us to do right now is to start planning for her college tuition in 18 years.

So technically we didn't get anymore answers today but it just added to the blessings we have recieved that everything would be okay. Yes there still is a chance our baby could be born with problems, but isn't that always a chance? Josh and I both know that with faith in the Lord and His promises and patience in the next few months we will have the most beautiful little baby girl come July.

4 comments:

Sarah and Trent said...

Lisa - I will keep you in my prayers. I can't imagine what you're going through...but I just had a miscarriage and am experiencing heartache right now also. I read in 1 Nephi 9:5 that Nephi obeyed "for a wise purpose in the Lord for which purpose I do not know now" (or something similar). this really comforted me because it reminded me that I know that for whatever reason the Lord has this planned for us and he will comfort us.

Keep posting updates - I hope everything works out ok. love ya - Sarah

Matt and Serenity Stewart said...

I love you two so much!!!! We will keep you guys in our prayers!!!! I can't wait to see this bundle of joy!

Danalin said...

That's absolutely right - no matter what, you are going to have a beautiful baby girl in your arms in a few months. Isn't that wonderful?! You and Josh seem to have a good grasp on peace and faith. I am keeping your little family in my prayers. Love you!

Tribe Family Happenings said...

Oh Elise and Joshy !! our hearts and prayers are with you and your little sweetheart waiting to come into this world. What a hard thing to experience, but of course you would have her no matter what ! You are both going to be fantastic parents. Can't wait to see her... until then ...We will keep all three of you in our prayers.

love ya bunches
Aunt Jan & Fam